Getting Naked Five Steps to Finding the Love of Your Life (While Fully Clothed & Totally Sober)

Harlan Cohen

St. Martin's Griffin



Trade Paperback

320 Pages



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From Harlan Cohen, the bestselling author of THE NAKED ROOMMATE: And 107 Other Issues You Might Run into in College, comes GETTING NAKED, an honest, hopeful guide to getting a date, falling in love—or lust—and finding happiness in love (and in life). With a simple 5-step approach to finding the love of your life, Harlan answers the most commonly asked questions from his syndicated advice column, his college tours, his website, and his newest book for Gen Y. He helped a generation make the most of college life, now he’ll help them find the love of their lives.


Praise for Getting Naked

“This book should be required reading for anyone looking for a relationship or re-evaluating a current relationship.  Harlan brilliantly delivers common sense relationship advice with a strong dose of humor.  Read this book now so that you can live a realistic 'happily ever after' forever.”—Carol Roth, Business Strategist and New York Times Bestselling Author of The Entrepreneur Equation

“The dating manual everyone should read—I only wish I’d had it sooner!”—Miss Marm,

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We Learn … Sharing Our Feelings Is Stupid (or Just a Very Bad Idea)
It all starts with a first crush. That’s when we first smell danger. It’s also when we first learn that sharing our feelings is a VERY BAD idea or just plain stupid. From the first “like” our knee-jerk reaction is to avoid letting anyone know. We might confide in a friend or two, but the only way we are willing to openly share our feelings is if we are 100 percent certain the person we like will like us back.
We’ll flirt, ask friends to ask
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  • Harlan Cohen is a nationally syndicated advice columnist, speaker, and author of the bestselling advice book for college students, The Naked Roommate: And 107 other issues you might run into in college, now in its fourth edition. He has been a guest on the Today Show, all Chicago TV stations, and 100+ radio shows, and has been quoted in the New York Times, USA Today, Chicago Tribune, LA Times, and the Wall Street Journal.

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