Why Him? Why Her?

Finding Real Love By Understanding Your Personality Type

Helen Fisher

Henry Holt and Co.

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A groundbreaking book about how your personality type determines who you love

Why do you fall in love with one person rather than another? In this fascinating and informative book, Helen Fisher, one of the world’s leading experts on romantic love, unlocks the hidden code of desire and attachment. Each of us, it turns out, primarily expresses one of four broad personality types—Explorer, Builder, Director, or Negotiator—and each of these types is governed by different chemical systems in the brain. Driven by this biology, we are attracted to partners who both mirror and complement our own personality type.

Until now the search for love has been blind, but Fisher pulls back the curtain and reveals how we unconsciously go about finding the right match. Drawing on her unique study of 40,000 men and women, she explores each personality type in detail and shows you how to identify your own type. Then she explains why some types match up well, whereas others are problematic. (Note to Explorers: be prepared for a wild ride when you hitch your star to a fellow Explorer!) Ultimately, Fisher’s investigation into the complex nature of romance and attachment leads to astonishing new insights into the essence of dating, love, and marriage.

Based on entirely new research—including a detailed questionnaire completed by seven million people in thirty-three countries—Why Him? Why Her? will change your understanding of why you love him (or her) and help you use nature’s chemistry to find and keep your life partner.

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CHAPTER 1
I am large, I contain multitudes.
—WALT WHITMAN
EAVESDROPPING ON
MOTHER NATURE:
Why Him? Why Her?
“Now you will feel no rain, for each of you will be shelter to the other. Now you will feel no cold, for each of you will be warmth to the other. Now there is no more loneliness for you. But there is one life before you. Go now to your dwelling place, to eat to your days together. And may your days be very long upon this earth.”
The Apache Indians of the American Southwest probably recited this wedding poem for centuries before I heard it in La Jolla,

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Listen to this audiobook excerpt from Helen Fisher's book Why Him? Why Her? How to Find and Keep Lasting Love. Helen Fisher can often tell, almost instantly, the hidden strengths and weaknesses in a relationship that are likely to keep a couple together or pull them apart. The words they choose, their facial structure and body language, even their doodles and where they live give strong clues to their personality type.

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Hear author Helen Fisher talk about the inspiration for her book Why Him? Why Her? How to Find and Keep Lasting Love. After three decades of studying romantic relationships, Fisher has discovered that your dominant personality type guides not only who you are but who you love.

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Praise for Helen Fisher:

"Fascinating…. An original and uniquely contemporary approach to a sensation that, for millennia, has been considered purely emotional." —The Washington Post on Why We Love

"A thesis with startling ramifications." —The New York Times Book Review on Why We Love

"Delightful to read, offering an abundance of fascinating facts." —The New York Times on Anatomy of Love


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About the Author

Helen Fisher

Helen Fisher, Ph.D., one of the world’s leading experts on the nature of romantic love and attachment, is the chief scientific adviser to Chemistry.com, a division of Match.com. She is the author of four previous books, two of which—The First Sex and The Anatomy of Love—were New York Times Notable Books. A research professor of anthropology at Rutgers University, she lives in New York City.

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Why Him? Why Her?
Finding Real Love By Understanding Your Personality Type
Helen Fisher

e-Book Agency

e-Book Agency
Henry Holt and Co.
January 2009
e-Book Agency
ISBN: 9781429982672
ISBN10: 1429982675
6 1/8 x 9 1/4 inches, 304 pages
$9.99

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Macmillan Audio
January 2009
Unabridged Digital Audio
ISBN: 9781427206282
ISBN10: 1427206287
Audio Run Time: 8:00
$14.99

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Henry Holt and Co.
Holt Paperbacks
January 2010
Trade Paperback
ISBN: 9780805091526
ISBN10: 0805091521
5 1/2 x 8 1/4 inches, 320 pages
$17.00
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