"Getting there may be half the battle, but until now no one has really addressed what we should do once we've arrived. McNaught, one of our most prominent sexuality educators, comes to our rescue with the practical primer that's both informative and fun to read."—The Advocate
"If you ever felt that you didn't quite fit in, weren't gay in the right way, had concerns that you didn't hear other gay or lesbian people talking about, this courageous personal account of a journey to self will give you a perspective that you are not likely to find elsewhere."—Betty Berzon, author of The Intimacy Dance
"This is a heart warming and life-affirming first-person account that will tempt you to sit back and enjoy being gay."—Gay Chicago
"McNaught captures a degree of sophistication missed by many other modern writers of the gay experience."—LGNY
"What makes McNaught's book superior . . . is its humility, its personal honesty, its freedom from negative criticism, and its ability to make the reader feel affirmed and hopeful."—Armand Cerbone, Ph.D., APA Division 44 Newsletter
"Warmly affirmative, realistic without being downbeat, and moving in its candor."—Library Journal
"Chattily and cogently written, this book offers solid advice to the majority of gays . . . on how to come to terms with themselves in both gay and mainstream society."—Publishers Weekly
