CHAPTER 1
TAKE AWAY the ARMOR
Actor Robert Downey Jr. was looking at the opportunity of a lifetime. He’d just landed the role of comic book superhero Tony Stark, the billionaire genius also known as Iron Man.
Stark is not your cookie-cutter superhero. He wasn’t born with supernatural powers. He is flawed, gritty, intense—driven. Just ask Captain America.
In an epic movie scene, Captain America confronts Tony Stark. Taking one stalking, provoking step at a time, Captain America circles Stark, spitting out a question meant to expose Stark’s inferiority.
“Big man in a suit of armor. Take that off, what are you?”
Stark doesn’t miss a beat and doesn’t even bother to turn his head to look at Captain America before answering.
“Genius, billionaire, playboy, philanthropist.”
Those four words not only summed up the man, but also summed up the herculean task Robert Downey Jr. had before him.
Downey had to accomplish nothing less than making Tony Stark real. And that meant embodying those four words: genius, billionaire, playboy, philanthropist.
Sitting across from Iron Man director Jon Favreau, Downey discussed the role. He needed to understand Stark’s character deeply, answering questions like what made Tony Stark tick, what drove his ambitions, what kind of genius could transform fantasy into reality. Because if you understand the character, then you can become him, and that’s how you bring Tony Stark to life.
Downey was struck by an idea. He wanted to hang out with a real-life Tony Stark.
And he had someone in mind. One man whose personality and life actually epitomized the heart and soul of Tony Stark’s character, with all the trappings of Stark’s supersized success. If Downy could spend time with this man, study him, try to get in his head, well then, Downey could nail the role.
That man was Elon Musk.
At thirty-five years old, Elon had already amassed a fortune and was well on his way to becoming one of the most powerful people in the world. With companies like PayPal, Tesla, and SpaceX, he pushed technology to the limit until he forced innovation and breakthrough, making his mark on three of the biggest industries that exist: banking, automobiles, and space. His ambitious ideas were so far-out that people often laughed at him, until they didn’t—usually because he’d accomplished the impossible.
TBH: Like Tony Stark, Elon also found time to make the rounds in Hollywood’s most glamorous social scene. To be super clear, Elon explained to a Telegraph reporter that he was merely 10 percent playboy. The other 90 percent Elon put firmly in the “engineer” category.
In 2007, Robert Downey Jr. gave Elon a call and soon found himself walking around SpaceX headquarters with Elon himself—observing, talking, and picking Elon’s brain. That time allowed Downey to perfect the role.
CHECK IT OUT! In the next installment of Marvel’s big screen franchise, Iron Man 2, Elon would even have a cameo.
That said, there was a major divergence between Elon and the comic book character. Tony Stark’s script came with a slick backstory: Child prodigy and heir apparent of famed entrepreneur accomplishes one incredible feat after another and then takes the helm of his father’s company and pushes it to the next level and beyond.
Elon’s backstory was far from slick. His childhood was dark, painful, and brutal. Elon had to endure both emotional torment at home and physical attacks at school. As a bullied schoolboy in Pretoria, South Africa, he was not an heir apparent. He was not a media darling in waiting. No, Elon was simply trying to survive.
NAME: Elon Reeve Musk
NICKNAMES: Genius Boy, Muskrat
DATE OF BIRTH: June 28, 1971
PLACE: Pretoria, South Africa
FIRST COMPUTER: Commodore VIC-20, at age 10
BOOKSHELF: The Hitchhiker’s Guide to the Galaxy, by Douglas Adams, and Isaac Asimov’s Foundation series.
GAME SHELF: Dungeons & Dragons
DAYDREAMS AND NIGHTMARES
As a little boy in South Africa, it was obvious from the time Elon could speak and toddle around that he was different. Elon’s mom, Maye Musk, recognized her son’s intelligence straightaway.
“He seemed to understand things quicker than other kids,”1 she said.
But she noticed something else, too—something about Elon’s behavior that concerned her. Elon would suddenly stare off in the distance, falling into a daydream so deep, so trancelike, that no one could get his attention. It could happen mid-conversation or in the middle of a busy room. His mother was worried. Did Elon have a massive hearing loss?
Shuffling him off to doctor after doctor, Maye tried to get to the bottom of it. The doctors saw it too. He sometimes seemed lost in another world that no one could penetrate.
Elon endured test after test. Finally, his doctors scheduled him for surgery. The plan was to remove his adenoids and hope Elon would hear better.
ADENOIDS: Adenoids are part of the immune system in infants and young children. Seated at the back of the nasal passageways, close to the ears, the adenoids’ job is to help the body tackle viruses and other germs as they enter the body. But sometimes, in fighting infection, they swell. Usually, once the germ is dealt with, they shrink back to normal. But if the adenoids become too big or infected, they can block the Eustachian tubes and even affect hearing.
But the surgery had no impact at all. That’s when they discovered his hearing was actually fine. It was his mind. Elon was simply so deep in thought, so focused on his ideas, immersed in every detail, that he detached from the rest of the world.
It was as if a movie was playing out before his eyes, allowing Elon to visually puzzle out a problem. Like daydreaming on steroids, he could not only see ideas but run virtual tests on them too.
“It seems as though the part of the brain that’s usually reserved for visual processing—the part that is used to process images coming in from my eyes—gets taken over by internal thought processes,” Elon explained to biographer Ashlee Vance. “I can’t do this as much now because there are so many things demanding my attention but, as a kid, it happened a lot. That large part of your brain that’s used to handle incoming images gets used for internal thinking.”2
That was not the only personality trait of Elon’s that stood out from an early age. A penchant for breaking rules and breaking them boldly—with commitment, drive, and flair—landed six-year-old Elon in some pretty hot water with his mother.
It all started when Elon’s mom grounded him. She made his punishment perfectly clear: Elon would not be allowed to go to his cousin’s birthday party.
And Elon’s reaction was also perfectly clear. Stay at home? When his younger brother and sister were going to the party? No way. Absolutely not.
Mind churning, Elon realized he needed a plan to get around the punishment.
Wait—his bike! He could ride his bike there. Elon let his mother know in no uncertain terms that he would most certainly be at the party. He didn’t need her to drive him there. He would ride his bike—all by himself.
Elon recounted this story in an auditorium full of people at the Computer History Museum. The crowd hung on his every word as he explained that telling his mother was a critical mistake. Because as soon as he divulged his plan, his mother looked at her son and fibbed.
“She told me some story about how you needed a license for a bike and that the police would stop me,”3 he explained.
To a six-year-old, dealing with the police seemed really bad. So a bike would not work. As Elon saw it, that left him with one option: He would have to walk.
Only, his cousin’s house wasn’t around the corner or in the neighborhood or even close by. In fact, the birthday party was across town—about twelve miles away.
One foot in front of the other, Elon walked. And walked. And walked.
Some four hours later, victory was in sight. Elon was just a couple of blocks away when he spotted his mother leaving the party with his brother and sister.
“She saw me walking down the road and freaked out,”4 he said.
Heart racing, Elon took off and ran into his cousin’s yard. He climbed a tree, perched himself high in the branches, and refused to come down.
That sense of independence and injustice was unshakeable.
Two years later, after Elon turned eight years old, his parents divorced. Elon, along with his brother, Kimbal, and sister, Tosca, lived with their mom. A model and dietician, Maye Musk woke up each morning and got to work with modeling gigs, wellness talks, meeting nutrition clients, and managing the paperwork and scheduling that comes with running your own business to make ends meet. She was not a hovering mother; she couldn’t afford to be. And there was this—she wanted her children to be independent, to understand what hard work was by watching her example, and to have the freedom to find their own way.
That left Elon with a lot of time on his hands, mostly unsupervised. He did not let it go to waste. Kimbal was only a year younger, which made them natural co-conspirators.
The two boys focused on rockets. Not just reading about them, but making them and figuring out explosives.
“I am shocked,” he told Rolling Stone, “that I have all my fingers.”5
When he wasn’t with Kimbal blowing things up or out riding their motorbikes, Elon was reading, sometimes for ten hours a day. Often, when Elon headed into town for a shopping trip with his family, he would just suddenly disappear. One minute he was there, the next minute he was nowhere to be found—until his mom or siblings checked the closest bookstore. All the way in the back, sitting on the floor, completely lost inside a book, that’s where you could find Elon.
Elon’s mom would even drag him along to dinner parties if she didn’t have a date. “I’d bring him to meet some interesting adults, and he’d hide a book under the table to read if they weren’t interesting enough,”6 she said.
For Elon, reading wasn’t simply a pastime. He was consuming vast amounts of information, devouring books whole, and remembering every detail plucked from their pages.
“I was raised by books,” he explained to Rolling Stone. “Books, and then my parents.”7
And comic books. Typically when you walk into a comic book store, you look around, make your selection, pay for it, and bring it home to read. But when Elon walked into the comic book store, he read them right then and there. Not just one comic book. Not two. He read them all. Every single comic book on the rack. Every single comic book in the store. Every. One. He loved them all, but some favorites were Doctor Strange, Batman, Green Lantern, Superman, and even Iron Man.
“In the comics, it always seems like they are trying to save the world,”8 Elon said.
Devouring as many sci-fi books as he could get his hands on, Elon discovered a similar theme. His favorites were Isaac Asimov’s Foundation series, Robert Heinlein’s The Moon Is a Harsh Mistress, and J. R. R. Tolkien’s The Lord of the Rings.
“At one point, I ran out of books to read at the school library and the neighborhood library,”9 he said.
Ran. Out. Of. Books. So what do you do as fourth grader when you have gone through the entire collection of two libraries? Well, the first thing Elon did was try to convince the librarians to order more. And while he waited for those new books to come in, he needed to do something to keep his insatiable curiosity well fed … he read the entire Encyclopedia Britannica from beginning to end.
He relished the information, loved knowing about the greater world and everything in it. And Elon became something of a walking, talking encyclopedia himself. If his family had a question, they turned to Elon for the answer. His sister, Tosca, gave him a nickname: Genius Boy.
Copyright © 2019 by Anna Crowley Redding
