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Macmillan Childrens Publishing Group

Thin Places

Essays from In Between

Jordan Kisner

Farrar, Straus and Giroux



When I was twenty I skipped spring break to spend a week in Grand Rapids, Michigan, asking Christians to tell me how they got saved. One of my classes that semester involved creating a piece of documentary theater about the cultural schism between conservative Christians and secular liberals, and it had been decided that one part of the writing team would travel to New York to talk to atheists while others of us would be sent to the Midwest to find the believers. I was sent to the believers.

I spent the week in a rental car with two other students and a professor, shuttling back and forth across strips of highway meeting our interview subjects in coffee shops, motel rooms, and their homes. I spoke with two women who told me Jesus had saved them from suicide, and one whom Jesus had saved from being shot by her boyfriend. We met with a young pastor, vibrant and curly haired, who explained the joy of following a god who instructed you to love people. Toward the end of the week, the professor and I drove at twilight to the home of an evangelical police officer who had moved to the city’s outskirts. The house stood, trim and modest, on a wind-chapped block, and the officer let us in his kitchen door as his wife was taking a casserole out of the oven. He was dressed in regular clothes, and he escorted us into the darkening living room, where his daughters sat arranging a puzzle on the carpet. There were two long couches, and we struggled out of our winter coats and settled opposite him to talk. Before I could turn on my recorder, he stopped us.

“First I want to know where you stand with God.”

“How do you mean?” I asked, though I knew.

“I want to know what your relationship is with Jesus Christ. Is He your Lord and Savior?”

Maybe everyone remembers themselves at twenty and thinks, Wow, I was impossibly young, but really I was so young, so eager to be good, so doe-like in the face of confrontation. After a brief silence, I managed to say that I didn’t know about Jesus Christ, whether he really was the son of God or just a good man, but I supposed his legacy was significant either way.

The man grimaced. “No, that’s wrong.” He seemed ready for my answer, as if he had been hoping to say what he said next. “Jesus Christ being the literal son of God is the basis of all human morality. It’s the truth that our whole lives hinge on.”

He went on. “If Jesus didn’t die so that I could be forgiven in my brokenness and join God in eternal life”—and here the police officer leaned forward and clasped his fingers together to make the shape of a gun, which he leveled at my forehead—“if Jesus was not the son of God, then there would be nothing to keep me from shooting you in the head right now.”

* * *

Technically, I have been saved through Jesus Christ. I was eight or maybe nine when a handful of kids delivered my soul to Jesus at summer camp. The twins primarily responsible for the conversion were canary blond, freckled head to toe, and passionate for Christ. The back seat of their mother’s car was the site of their first efforts. Camp, which we would attend together, was only a few days away, and they wanted to give me a preview.

Did I know about Jesus?

Did I know He’s the son of God, and our Lord and Savior, and God gave Him to us so He could die for our sins and send us all to heaven?

Had I taken Jesus into my heart and made Him master of my life?

Did I know that when I did, the angels would throw a huge party in heaven and then start building my most perfect house there, like, the most amazing house ever?

Could I hear Jesus knocking at the door to my heart?

Could I hear Him?

I guessed I did kind of hear the knocking. Jesus was a new fairy tale, walking on water, multiplying fish, but their description of God, an all-knowing, all-loving being who watched over every step I took—this made intuitive sense. I was already aware of a great Somethingness that was at work in the world. The signs were everywhere: the way I saw symphonies of color when I closed my eyes to think; the way ocean tides felt sentient, like a creature to whose moods I submitted my body; the discovery that air looks invisible but a bright light beamed in a dark room reveals millions of particles swirling.

I lived inside what the poet Christian Wiman calls “that universally animate energy, that primal permeability of mind and matter that children both intuit and inhabit … that clear and endlessly creative existence that a word like ‘faith’ can only stain.” Christianity offered a new language for that feeling, and, as language does, it reframed my world according to its logic.

My family had never been religious—it was by accident that they sent me to a Bible camp. (The twins had been before, and their mother suggested a group of our school friends go together.) My mother was raised Catholic, but exited the church in her twenties; my father often suggests that organized religion is the world’s oldest and most effective smoke screen for human violence, greed, and stupidity. For a brief time when I was in kindergarten, we attended services at a local Presbyterian church at the behest of my mother, but my father eventually refused to go, and so we all gave it up. My brother, so far as I know, has never felt the slightest interest in any of it.

At the camp, which took place in the mountains between Los Angeles and the Mohave, all the counselors took new names in Christ, having been forbidden to tell us their given names, a policy that now strikes me as disconcerting. My counselor, a ruddy-faced and radiant woman who I loved passionately, named herself Sonshine because she wanted the light of the Son of God to shine through her. At night, around the bonfire, the camp director gave impassioned talks about the goodness of Christ, and asked whether there were any among us who had not yet given our lives to Him.

If today is the day that you want to change everything and be born again in everlasting life, to have all your sins wiped clean and to join with God forever, come down to the fire, he’d say, looking around the little amphitheater.

Kids in sweatshirts with sunburned noses would tramp down the dusty bleachers and approach the director, looking determined and mortified. Counselors palmed their skulls and prayed over them. Some of the converts cried a little, but more often the kids watching did, the ones who had already been saved. At the end of the praying, the counselors would present the saved kids back to us proudly, like gleaming soul-trophies. I declined to be saved in this way, mostly because the spectacle made me shy. Instead, I whispered the “Jesus, I open my heart to you” speech in my sleeping bag one night at bedtime. We were sleeping out on the deck of our cabin, and while my friends exchanged nighttime chatter, I studied the silhouette of the tree line against the stars and repeated the oath as I’d learned it. After, I leaned over to one of the twins and whispered what I’d done.

I’m aware, though I wasn’t then, that it’s commonly thought that people who go from zero to born-again must be coping with some kind of trauma, or feel broken and in need of saving. That’s not universally true, nor, I think, a bad way to find faith, if that’s your thing. But as a child, I was neither traumatized nor broken; I was just naturally reverent. There wasn’t anything about my life crying out for radical change. I felt, as if on a cellular level, that God was true.

* * *

I didn’t tell the evangelical police officer the complete truth when he asked, because it had been years since I’d known how to answer his question. People use metaphors like lightning striking or a switch being flipped for a reason—a lot of the time, conversion comes from the outside. It’s not so much a chosen reorientation to reality as it is a new awareness of how you have always, blindly, been oriented. It’s like Technicolor, the moment in The Wizard of Oz when Dorothy opens her front door and the whole familiar world turns from dust and sepia to butter-yellow roads and waxy green leaves and a pond dyed chemical ultramarine and it turns out that the dress she’s been wearing was actually blue and there were roses in her cheeks all along, only she didn’t know.

With this comes a second, more unsettling, revelation: reality is not what you thought it was. It can, and will, invert—and the moments or spaces of inversion are rarely yours to predict or decide.

Unconversion felt like conversion but sadder, like desaturation to grayscale. The best way I can describe what it felt like is to say that God left. I recognize that this doesn’t fit the Christian construct of God—God would never leave because he is always with you, the theology goes, not to mention that there’s no corner of creation not “of” God, which means there’s no conceivable place for him to leave to. But that was the phenomenon as I experienced it: in my twelfth year, or maybe my thirteenth, the feeling of God’s presence that had been so immediate just vanished. I didn’t know why.

There’s a phrase for this in Christian theology: Deus absconditus, the hidden god. Some theologians have framed this as a way of talking about God’s inscrutability, the fact that we can’t see or hear him, that we have no proof. Others use it as a way of acknowledging that it often feels that God is absent, painfully far away. The playwright Tony Kushner, who isn’t a theologian but seems to have read most of them, wrote in his epic Angels in America about a god who caught the human itch for new horizons and went off adventuring, actually absconding in the middle of the night. The angels are left bereft and in chaos. “The Aleph Glyph from Which all Words Descend … HE Left … And did not return.” This is more or less what it felt like to me.

Copyright © 2020 by Jordan Kisner