If You Love Me

“Realizing that . . . the disease of addiction is more powerful than even the very strongest parent-child bond is the essence of Cavanagh’s maternal ‘journey,’ which will offer readers facing similar struggles some useful information and, above all, the comfort of knowing that they are not alone.”—The New York Times Book Review

"An urgent dispatch from the front lines of the heroin epidemic by a mother who witnesses the dissolution of her honor-roll daughter; Maureen Cavanagh's riveting voice pulls you through this modern plague with honesty, humanity and, surprisingly, with humor."—Katharine Q. Seelye, The New York Times

“Kindred spirits . . . will fully appreciate Cavanagh’s stellar job in reassuring parents . . . offering subtle, in-story advice and rueful observations that make this book valuable for a parent, grandparent, friend and politician. This book deserves its spot on a growing list of books on addiction."—The Guam Daily Post

“Cavanagh has written a modern classic of healing and self-discovery. A striking memoir whose power lies in its compelling and page-turning empathy for its subjects."—Beth Macy, New York Times bestselling author of Factory Man and Dopesick

“A memoir that reads like fiction—but all the more striking because Cavanagh, neither too privileged nor too disadvantaged—could be any one of us."—Sam Quinones, author of Dreamland: The True Tale of America’s Opiate Epidemic

"Maureen Cavanagh understands, at the deepest level, the terror and the helplessness that families feel as they watch their child spiral into the void. The story that she shares in If You Love Me is the story of thousands, and it is told with honesty, compassion, and fierce hope. Maureen's commitment to overcoming stigma and isolation in this book will help families for years to come."—Ruth A. Potee, MD, addictionologist

“A frank and vivid portrayal of a mother’s journey through the potentially grave and enduring unpredictability of a loved one’s opioid addiction. An invaluable resource for suffering families as well for those wishing to understand the phenomenology of the disease of addiction and, indeed, the hope of recovery and new beginnings."—John F. Kelly, Ph.D. ABPP, Elizabeth R. Spallin Associate Professor of Psychiatry, Harvard Medical School; Director, Recovery Research Institute, Massachusetts General Hospital

“An emotionally fraught tale of a mother's love and her actions to save her daughter from opioid addiction."—Kirkus Reviews

"Cavanagh's writing is honest and straightforward, her pace fast and tone foreboding; all this makes for a page-turner that puts readers beside her on the emotional roller coaster that dealing with a loved one's substance abuse is."—Booklist