IntroductionWelcome to Your Official Manifestation Troubleshooting Guide

What if the only thing standing between you and everything you want wasn’t your worthiness, your ability, or even your carefully curated vision board, but something you’ve never even been taught to identify?

Welcome to your official manifestation troubleshooting guide. If you’ve been doing all the “right things” only to manifest the occasional free coffee, you’ve come to the right place.

You’ve waited long enough for all your goals and dreams to come true, so I’ll cut to the chase. And don’t worry, I’m not just going to tell you, “You’re not a vibrational match to what you desire and that’s why you’re stuck,” because—obviously—that’s why you’re here, and you need to know how to get unstuck.

Plus, I don’t have the time or energy to play the manifesting shame game. “Oh, you must have been exceptionally out of alignment to have created that reality.…” Personally, I’m not that interested in what you created before you opened this book. No offense. Maybe it’s just all the Aquarius placements in my chart, but I’m far more invested in your future, starting now.

So, here’s the tea …

If you’ve been struggling to manifest something, it’s not because you suck at manifesting. It’s not because you’re not magnetic enough. It’s not because life has somehow deemed you unworthy. And please, dear reader, enough with the “maybe it just wasn’t meant to be” shtick. It’s not that either. Oh, and for my fellow overachievers, it’s not because you’re not trying hard enough. Effort alone can only take you so far.

The truth is, there’s only one thing standing between you and your manifestations: resistance.

Resistance is the “yes-but” running in the background of all the goals that you haven’t been able to achieve (yet). You want to be in love, but you’re scared to get hurt … again. (Also, dating sucks.) You want more money, but you feel selfish for wanting it. You want to improve your health, but you don’t want to give up your morning McDonald’s Hash Brown runs. (Don’t get me started on those hot, deep-fried, crunchy narcotics masquerading as food!) You want to be more creative and be recognized for your obvious talents, but you’re scared of what people will think.

Resistance is the “yes-but” running in the background of all the goals that you haven’t been able to achieve (yet).

The list goes on. Trust me, I’m very familiar with all the variations.

Over the last decade, I’ve had a front row seat to what actually works. I’ve reached hundreds of thousands of people worldwide between my podcast, books, and blog. I’ve led women’s self-love retreats where the breakthroughs weren’t just a great tan and some natural highlights, but truly life-changing, toxic-cycle-breaking stuff. I’ve witnessed people recover from brutal heartbreak, untangle self-destructive patterns, and find relief from crippling anxiety and nasty inner critics. And, of course, I’ve helped people call in the goods we all like to daydream about—like soulmates, dream homes, career glow-ups, health wins, and unexpected financial opportunities!

The interesting thing was, it was never any one manifesting method or goal-setting technique that did the trick, despite the promises that they would. Different techniques worked, or didn’t, for different people. (Looking at you, 5 AM miracle morning routine. Some of us are not built for any kind of morning-ing, okay?) But the one thing that did make the difference for everyone was learning how to get out of their own way, sometimes—oftentimes—more than once.

And I promise you, I’m not a guru who learned any of this sitting atop a mountain—I wish. I learned it the messy way. From clawing my way out of suicidal depression in my teens. From collecting enough relationship disasters to start my own Museum of Poor Decisions. From a spontaneous (and slightly traumatic) Kundalini awakening that opened Pandora’s psychic box in my brain. And from plenty of other health struggles and personal challenges along the way.

So yes, you could say the lessons I share in the following pages were bestowed upon me by the University of Life, my work thus far, and my rarely mentioned—but extremely telling—fifteen years as a hairstylist, aka professional secret keeper/people decoder/hair-apist.

All that has taught me without a doubt that resistance is sneaky as hell, and it shows up differently for everyone. But once you learn how to spot it and work with it (which is exactly what this book will teach you to do), manifesting becomes so much easier. And, a bonus side effect: You won’t have to shake your fist up at the sky anymore, cursing the universe for your obvious lack of results.

Why, universe?! Why.

(Quick disclaimer: You’ll see me reference both “God” and “the universe” throughout this book because I cocreate with both. God as the Creator, and the universe as the organized system of quantum intelligence. But please, use whatever language resonates with you! Source, spirit, higher power … the principles work regardless of the terminology.)

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So, here’s the game plan. I have two primary goals with this book. The first is to make you super aware of the different ways resistance may be showing up in your life. After all, how are you supposed to fix a problem you don’t even know exists? My second goal is to equip you with practical solutions to dissolve, let go of, and untangle your resistance, with permanence, no matter how it’s currently wreaking havoc. Once you know how to do that, those big dreams can become realities and your ambitious goals will drive you to success instead of driving you crazy. Because, in the absence of resistance, you energetically align with your desires in the most efficient way possible, in a repeatable, predictable way.

This book is not just another manifestation book that tells you to “think positive and receive.” Make no mistake, the pages you now hold are the keep-it-real, no-BS explanation of why the Law of Attraction works for some people but not you, and exactly how to change that.

And the best part is, you’re not that far off! The only difference between you and the most successful manifesters on this planet is that they are amazing at the two skills you’re about to master in this book: identifying and troubleshooting resistance. That’s it. They aren’t more powerful, luckier, or somehow more deserving. They are just masters at finding and then resolving their resistance every single time they go to create something new. They can turn any challenge, obstacle, or blockage into an opportunity for self-discovery, growth, and advancement.

The only difference between you and the most successful manifesters on this planet is that they are amazing at the two skills you’re about to master in this book: identifying and troubleshooting resistance. That’s it.

No matter how big your dream or lofty your goal, when you start to redirect your energy like this, anything will be possible for you too. The truth is, you don’t need to manifest harder; you just need to align better.

So here are my questions for you:

What if the only thing standing in your way is the story you keep telling yourself about why it can’t work?

What if what you’re writing off as bad luck is really just unidentified resistance?

What if those hopes and dreams you’re about to give up on become inevitable once you learn how to spot and fix your own blockages?

And most importantly, what would your life look like if you got better at going for it than you are at stopping yourself?

Let’s find out.



1Resistance 101The Difference Between Meh and Masterful Manifesting

Have you ever felt like the universe was straight-up ghosting you? You’ve been a good little manifester, doing everything right …

You’ve journaled enough affirmations to fill the Library of Congress.

Written enough fake checks to purchase a small island.

Meditated for stretches that would make Eckhart Tolle blush.

You even tried that weird bay leaf ritual you saw on TikTok.

And still: crickets.

It’s like you placed your cosmic Amazon order, but it’s been way more than two days now and not one package. That, my friend, is resistance at play.

So what exactly is resistance and how does it stall the manifestation process?

Simply put, resistance is when your energy is split. Part of you wants the thing, part of you doesn’t. The result? Mixed signals, stalled momentum, and no manifestation. (Whomp.)

You want more money, but you secretly think that you’ll have to give up your slow-paced lifestyle to get it. Also, “rich people are bad,” and you’re obviously better than them. So you subconsciously keep your riches at bay.

You want better friendships, but you’re too busy hanging out with Becky from high school because you don’t have the heart to let her go, even though you have nothing left in common and she somehow always manages to compliment you in a way that makes you feel worse, like, “You look so good now that you’ve lost all that weight!” Thanks…?

You want to start your own business, but your Aunt Sue (we all have one) keeps reminding you how her second cousin lost it all in 2008 and now sells MLM pantyhose from her trunk, so you just stay at your soul-numbing job instead.


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